• 2021,  Beliefs,  Healing,  January,  Spirituality

    Control Your Thoughts, Don’t Heal Emotions

    Emotions are created by our thoughts. Emotions are not random. They don't show up "just because". They show up because of the thoughts we think and the script that plays in our heads. If we learn to manage our thoughts, we automatically gain control over how we feel. Contemplating emotions will actually send us down a rabbit hole of more emotion. We get swept in the tide of how we feel and it's really hard to come back from that. This is why when we're trying to heal from past events, it's really important to try to stay out of the emotion of it. We can't control a tidal wave. We have to control the thinking around it.

  • 2021,  Empowerment,  Healing,  January,  Paid Blog,  Spirituality

    Your Self-Worth Is Not In Other People

    When I talk about letting other people off the hook, it's partially about blame, but there is also a degree of responsibility within that. We can only take responsibility for our own stuff. We can't force others to take responsibility for theirs. As and when we're willing to accept responsibility for our own stuff, we will begin to see relationships shift based on our new truth. Letting others off the hook removes the blame, but also forces us to take responsibility for ourselves and our behaviour. That's why it's so hard to do. It's easier to blame because it allows us to avoid taking responsibility. To access this post, you must purchase Monthly Blog Access, 1 Month of Private Coaching, One-Month Private Coaching, 3-Month Private Coaching Package, Three-Month Private Coaching, 6-Months Private Coaching Package, Six-Month Private Coaching, 12-Months Private Coaching Package, Twelve Month Private Coaching or Yearly Blog Subscription.