• 2021,  April,  Empowerment,  Spirituality

    Find People That Support Your Journey

    There are over 7 billion people on this planet and there are over 7 billion versions of the truth on every topic imaginable. We can often find common ground. We can often find people that agree with our truth more or less, but there are still slight variations between every person out there. This is why I say frequently, that trying to gain agreement is an impossible task. If having a functioning society requires agreement among all the people within that society, we will never have a functional society. We have to find a better way.

  • 2021,  Empowerment,  February,  Paid Blog,  Spirituality

    Expectations as Self-Victimization

    Having no expectations doesn't mean we put up with everything other people do. It doesn't mean we're doormats. That's now how this works. Putting up with everything other people do is self-victimization. Having no expectations is empowering. Let me explain. To access this post, please purchase a subscription

  • 2021,  Empowerment,  February,  Paid Blog,  Spirituality,  Truth

    Feeling Different

    Life teaches us about our own power. It teaches us about our own ability to overcome the different things that happen in our lives. It teaches us about relationships, both healthy and really toxic. It teaches us about who we are and why we're here. No, we're not here to just pay bills and die. There is far more to this experience than that. To access this post, please purchase a subscription

  • 2021,  Empowerment,  Healing,  January,  Paid Blog,  Spirituality

    Your Self-Worth Is Not In Other People

    When I talk about letting other people off the hook, it's partially about blame, but there is also a degree of responsibility within that. We can only take responsibility for our own stuff. We can't force others to take responsibility for theirs. As and when we're willing to accept responsibility for our own stuff, we will begin to see relationships shift based on our new truth. Letting others off the hook removes the blame, but also forces us to take responsibility for ourselves and our behaviour. That's why it's so hard to do. It's easier to blame because it allows us to avoid taking responsibility. To access this post, please purchase a subscription

  • 2021,  Empowerment,  January

    Making Peace with Our Choices

    Sometimes we make decisions about things we know we need to do, like me letting go of all of the coaching and readings I was offering to focus on writing, but we have a hard time getting behind those decisions fully. We still kind of hang on to the side of the pool. We don't dive in fully. That's me right now.

  • 2020,  December,  Empowerment

    Figuring Things Out on The Fly

    I've wanted to teach since I was 5-years old. I can remember hating my Kindergarten teacher because she had us do the same things every single day. It was the most boring Kindergarten class ever. To be fair to her, she was pregnant that year and I don't think she was feeling the greatest as a result. It was definitely a survival thing for her until she go on leave. Now, as an adult, I feel bad for her. I've done that and it sucks! But, I also thank her now too because she, inadvertently made me a better teacher years later.