• 2021,  Healing,  March,  Spirituality

    My Story of Depression

    There are so many stories from my life that I can share with you. I want to use the blog to share some of them with you, like the one I'm going to share today. I want it to be clear upfront that I'm not sharing a sob story. I'm not blaming anybody for my experience. I don't want you to feel sorry for me. This is my life. It's experience. It's my story. I lived it for a reason. Nothing in life is random. While I'm happy to share these things with you, I'm struggling to find the balance between sharing with you and re-victimizing myself. Please forgive me if this comes across that way. It is not the intent nor is it the purpose. Thanks in advance for reading my story.

  • 2021,  February,  Healing,  Paid Blog,  Spirituality

    You Are Not a Victim

    Self-victimization is a form of ego protection. It's the ego and the voice in our heads, making us victims of the people and things around us in order to keep us safe. If we never get into a relationship again we don't have to worry about getting hurt. If we never get off the couch we can't stub our toe again. If we just stop talking to everybody, nobody can disappoint us anymore. There is safety in walling ourselves off from life, or at least that's how the ego would like us to see it. But we know that this isn't realistic. We can't live life like that. So what do we do? To access this post, please purchase a subscription

  • 2021,  Change,  Healing,  Spirituality

    The Invisible Cage

    The saying goes that happiness is an inside job. What does that mean? Regardless of what's going on around us we have the power to be happy in the moment. That isn't necessarily an easy thing to do, but the recognition of the possibility of it is an important first step.

  • 2021,  Healing,  January,  Paid Blog,  Spirituality

    What Happens When We Plateau?

    Sometimes on the spiritual path we talk about the idea of plateauing. We reach a level or a place on our path and we seem to stay there for a while. It's not a bad thing, we just hang out. Sometimes it makes us wonder what's going on and sometimes it makes us think we're getting lazy or we're not doing enough, but none of those things are true. To access this post, please purchase a subscription

  • 2021,  Grief,  Healing,  January,  Paid Blog,  Spirituality,  Truth

    My Awakening Experience

    This isn't something I've shared publicly in a blog before. It's not something I talk about a lot. The only place I referred to it is in my first book, The Truth of My Awakening, where I briefly discuss what happened. I was hesitant to share the full story because I didn't want to sound like a victim. I'm not a victim. But I've decided maybe it can help some of you. Maybe you'll be able to relate to it in a way that will be helpful to you. To access this post, please purchase a subscription

  • 2021,  Beliefs,  Healing,  January,  Spirituality

    Control Your Thoughts, Don’t Heal Emotions

    Emotions are created by our thoughts. Emotions are not random. They don't show up "just because". They show up because of the thoughts we think and the script that plays in our heads. If we learn to manage our thoughts, we automatically gain control over how we feel. Contemplating emotions will actually send us down a rabbit hole of more emotion. We get swept in the tide of how we feel and it's really hard to come back from that. This is why when we're trying to heal from past events, it's really important to try to stay out of the emotion of it. We can't control a tidal wave. We have to control the thinking around it.

  • 2021,  Empowerment,  Healing,  January,  Paid Blog,  Spirituality

    Your Self-Worth Is Not In Other People

    When I talk about letting other people off the hook, it's partially about blame, but there is also a degree of responsibility within that. We can only take responsibility for our own stuff. We can't force others to take responsibility for theirs. As and when we're willing to accept responsibility for our own stuff, we will begin to see relationships shift based on our new truth. Letting others off the hook removes the blame, but also forces us to take responsibility for ourselves and our behaviour. That's why it's so hard to do. It's easier to blame because it allows us to avoid taking responsibility. To access this post, please purchase a subscription