Humans love to avoid change. We make all kinds of excuses about why we need to stay where we are, why we can’t change, why it’s too hard, and why we shouldn’t have to keep changing.
The simple truth is this; You will not be happy and you will be stuck in your current situation until you make a firm decision to change it.
The funny part is, it doesn’t mean that anything has to change in your outside world in that moment. It doesn’t mean you have to pack boxes. It doesn’t mean you have to sell everything you own. It doesn’t mean you have to break up. It doesn’t mean you have to do anything concrete yet. It just means you have to decide to show up for yourself, regardless of what that might look like in the outside world down the road.
Are you willing to fight for your own happiness?
Are you willing to do that work?
Many of you know that I ended my marriage last Easter. Nothing has changed in my outside world yet. My own internal sense of self, my own internal freedom, my own internal ability to be okay regardless of what is going on around me, has changed. That’s the point. Even without packing a single box, I was able to free myself right from where I was because I simply made a choice that I was more important than the crap that I was holding on to.
It doesn’t matter how it manifests. It doesn’t matter who tries to get in the way. It doesn’t matter what kind of crazy happens because of it. My choice to take responsibility for my own life and do my own thing my own way, is what continues to push me forward. It’s the thing that continues to free me from my own chains.
It’s all been about finding my flow, finding my purpose, deciding what I want and going after that. It’s laser focus on what I want to create without worrying about the outcome or when it might show up.
Chances are, you’re holding yourself back intentionally still. You’re not moving forward because you’re afraid of what that looks like. That’s okay, fear is part of the human experience. This is one of those places where we have to feel the fear and do it anyway. The only person freeing you is you. That requires a solid decision to do something differently, to allow change, and to free yourself from your own chains. Nothing holds you back except you, regardless of what the outside world might be saying.
You have the truth inside of you, we all do. It’s not hiding, it’s not buried, it’s not a mystery even though it might seem like it. It’s right there for you to take. As you allow yourself to want what you want and have what you want to have, you will ultimately find that truth for yourself. It’ll probably smack you in the head and you’ll wonder how you missed it all those years. I certainly did.
So many people around me right now are in some degree of change or flux. Life is dealing out all the things, it’s smacking some people in the face, and it’s making others question their sanity. This ride right now is not an easy one but there is purpose here. This crazy is how you get to where you want to go. We go through the crazy. We try to figure out what the Universe is telling us and then we try to do what we know we need to do.
What’s the Universe screaming at you right now? What aren’t you hearing? How can you find a way to tune in so you can hear it?
There are many courses and freebies available on the menu above. Private coaching is also available. It’s time to allow the changes! It’s time to move forward. How can I help you do that?
Sending love to all.
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