The transition point comes when you no longer care about solving the problems. Effectively the problems stop mattering. You're no longer in fear. You're happy in your work and you're comfortable with what you're doing. You're out of your head and you've dealt with the majority of the crazy ideas that use d to stop you.
In this episode, I talk about the pain that is behind the actions and words of most people and how the pain means the actions and words are often incongruent and not a full picture of the other person. I'm using this episode to challenge how we see other people and what we do with what we see. Are you ready to accept the challenge?
How we perceive our reality is an important part of who we are in the world, how we perceive ourselves in the world, and whether or not we can be okay in the world. Our ability to discern what we are seeing and filter it or process it in a way that doesn't traumatize us is an important step in the healing process.
Each of us as individuals is extremely powerful. We were born with that power intact. Most of us never acknowledge it. We've taken on too much of what the outside world has told us about ourselves and it causes us to hide our power deep within us. The goal of healing is to dig that power out and live from it fully.
I didn't feel like I had a place in the world and to try to help, the people around me kept trying to put me in the proverbial box they thought I should be in. The more they tried to push me in a certain direction, the more depressed I became.
. I'm semi-arguing with my confidence and trying to understand how this all works. I'm working through it in stages. Stage one was on Friday. I posted this big long thing on social media about my sheer lack of confidence and asked for help. I did have a few people respond to my request and I sincerely thank you for that.
I have to leap and the avoidance is real. Can you tell from my last paragraph? It's time to say goodbye to this old cycle. I've hung onto it long enough. 2022 will be completely new territory for me. A big chunk of it is just going to be watching things happen around me. It's not that I won't be busy writing and doing my thing, but there are a lot of things that will be happening that will be out of my control. I asked for this crazy mess, so I might as well get out of my own way and allow it.
The point of the human experience is not for us to be in pain all the time. The point of the human experience is for us to understand the truth behind what the human experiences. The point is to find the spiritual truth and use that as a basis for healing. The blame, guilt, and victimization we experience are human only and they aren't part of the spiritual truth behind the experience.
What I often say is that I can tell you what's going to happen if you go in a straight line. Who the hell goes in a straight line? Nobody! But by telling you where you're going to end up if you keep going in that general direction, you can decide what to do differently, if anything. It gives you control in a way you didn't have before. Now you can decide consciously where to go and who you need to be to get there. What do I need to heal to create that outcome? Who do I need to be to create that outcome?
happens instead is, you're shown what you believe the majority of the time, but then every once in a while, something different will sneak through to show you that something different is possible. It happens that way so you don't think you're crazy