messages or trauma. We get taught that we don't make good choices. We get taught that we are unreliable or not good enough. Through those messages, we stop trusting ourselves because nobody around us trusts us, so we don't either. That's where it starts. What we learn later in life is that those messages aren't true. They are coming from wounded people that probably don't trust themselves either.
hat didn't work out quite right. It reminds us of that time that person told us we couldn't do it or weren't good enough