Wow! I was all over the place in this episode talking about the connection to my money story, the powerlessness, the ego identity, and how it all fits together. I even came up with this really wild idea that maybe I had created a problem by using tarot to separate myself from my intuition outside of my work. That's a fun rabbit hole I'm going to go dig into.
This brings up the idea that we don't need a big day like this to just simply decide to be okay. I give some tips and advice on how to do that for yourself. Can I do it? Check back next episode to find out what happened!
In this episode, I talk about how to block out worry and fear so that you can focus on your goals. A combination of doing what you love, stubborn determination, and the ability to block out worry and fear will allow you to be successful. Listen to learn more about how this works!
In this episode, I talk about how to break through the lie in our reality, first by not fixing the problem and then secondly by breaking the habit of worry and fear. Join me as I discuss the importance of making a firm decision and doing it anyway, no matter what happens.
The problem-solving becomes fear if the mind can't solve the problem and it doesn't get an answer. So by telling it there is nothing happening and it's fine to just hang out, it's satisfied with that. It'll play along for a bit. I've quelled the mind and it's given me some time to work with things.
The story of fear caused me to do things unnecessarily. Buying into the fear had me playing a game I didn't need to play and creating a problem to solve that wasn't even there
We all get sucked into worry and fear sometimes. They are not helpful and we need to learn how to stop spending our time worrying about things, especially the things we can't control.
know you're in for a rough road ahead. Just so you understand, the marriage thing failed, I do have the kids, we rent our home, and there is a puppy. As for my teaching career, well I'm doing it, just not the way I was supposed to do it. I was supposed to teach little kids in a classroom. I'm not there in case you missed that memo.
I could complain that it was the old cycle showing up or I can recognize the costume and see the disguise for what it is and do something differently. This is how we break cycles. This is how we allow a change to happen. If you're in a cycle and it doesn't matter what it is and you want to break it, you have to respond differently to it when it shows up. If you don't, you perpetuate the cycle. If you don't it happens again.
f avoidance is based on fear that shows up as a lack of motivation, then it's up to me and my awareness to catch myself. In the past, it's been easy to pawn it off as a bad day, or just not being interested anymore, or deciding it's not working, but generally, those things aren't true. It's just me putting up my own roadblocks and stopping myself from doing what I want. I successfully jumped the hurdle yesterday, but that may not happen every time and that's okay. As long as I can catch it the majority of the time, I can keep going until the behavior stops happening.