Stop Arguing with It!
Balance can only be created when you find it within yourself and you let go of all the conditions around what you're doing and why you're doing it. If you could do anything with your life what would you do? Lots of people answer that question with wanting to sit on the beach and drink margaritas. Why? Because they want the opportunity to relax. They want to take the edge off. They are tired of struggling.
Commit to The Shift Before It Happens
The problem-solving becomes fear if the mind can't solve the problem and it doesn't get an answer. So by telling it there is nothing happening and it's fine to just hang out, it's satisfied with that. It'll play along for a bit. I've quelled the mind and it's given me some time to work with things.
It’s Time to Stop the Fight
I remember the day I gave up and surrendered. I remember when my reality finally forced me to stop arguing with it because I couldn't fix it. I didn't have the power to change anything. The only thing I could do from that space was surrender completely and let things happen the way they were going to with no intervention from me. I sat on my hands and watched. Yes, it was hard to do.
