You think you'll drown if you let go of the life raft. But what happens if you just stand up? Can you recognize that the water is only 2 feet deep? You're not going to drown, you can touch the bottom. Just stand up. There's nothing to be afraid of. There is no leap to make. Just put your feet down because you will be supported when you do that.
Do you talk about your what is? When you do, do you talk about the struggle of it? It's easy to fall back into the trap of talking about what is regardless of whether we actually like it or not.