The Secret Sauce of Manifestation
When we talk about manifesting anything, we hear the same phrases and ideas being tossed around. It’s this idea that if I ask for what I want and I believe I can have it, that it will come. That is true. On a really basic level, that is true. But for anybody that’s ever struggled with manifesting anything, we know there’s more to it.
I was sitting here thinking about what I wish somebody had to said to me when I was trying to learn how to manifest. Here’s what came to me. We are taught early on in life not to be entitled. We see this idea of entitlement as a trigger word, as a bad thing, as something we shouldn’t do. But in order to manifest, you need the energy of entitlement. You need to understand that you can have whatever it is that you want and that you are entitled to it. Without the entitlement, for most us, there isn’t enough emotional power behind the asking to actually create what we want.
The thing is, the world does revolve around you. It is centered on you and your wants and needs. You are allowed to ask for and receive anything that you want. It sounds like I’ve turned the Universe into a genie in a bottle, and in some ways it is. But there is healing work that has to go in behind that in order to have a world that does revolve around you. There is more to this process than just asking for what we want.
It all sounds really spoiled doesn’t it? It’s that entitlement thing that we don’t like, that we get taught not to be. But we have to be entitled because that’s the energy of manifestation. It’s the idea that I get to have what I want because I’ve decided and that’s just the way it’s going to be. This or better. Period. It’s not up for debate. It’s not up for discussion. It’s not only if I work hard enough or only if I get lucky. It gets to be mine because I’ve decided it is.
The trouble starts when we have that healthy sense of entitlement but we’re still “wounded”. We’re still holding on to beliefs and ideas that conflict with the thing that we want. We can’t be millionaires when we believe money is evil. We can’t have a romantic partner when we believe that all the good ones are taken. We can’t create any of it if we don’t think we deserve it. Entitlement sounds spoiled when it is conflicting with other beliefs the person may have.
There’s also an element of trust that goes into this. We have to trust ourselves and/or the Universe to bring us what we want. We also have to understand that we don’t really have to do much to get it. This is the idea of flow. It’s the idea that if I simply trust that I will have what I want and I have no conflicting beliefs that might hold back what I want, then I can relax and the Universe will bring the thing to me.
It doesn’t necessarily mean that there will be no work, but the work will be in alignment and there will be no desperation behind it. That’s the trick. If I do this thing and put it out in the world, I will be successful because I’ve decided to be successful. It doesn’t matter how many followers I have or don’t have, how many times I post it, whether I’m online or now, how many I worked or didn’t work that, I’m allowed to be successful because I’m allowed to be successful. It’s not attached to anything other than my own belief that I get to have what I want and I get to have a good time doing it.
Last night I got really frustrated with things. I posted out of frustration offering one-hour sessions with me for $100CAD in my Facebook group. It wasn’t desperation. It came up as frustration. But in that moment, I just decided that I was allowed to have what I needed, that I was allowed to be supported and within an hour I’d made the money that I needed. It wasn’t because I did anything huge. It was because I simply decided that I could have what I wanted and I didn’t have to keep perpetuating this dumb cycle that I’ve been in. It’s time for a change and because I got pissed off enough and decided to allow it, it happened.
You don’t need to be pissed off. You don’t need to wait until the frustration sets in. Get entitled. Decide what you want your life to look like and create that because you can and you deserve it. If you have beliefs that are getting in the way, then begin the process of doing the work to heal those. If you’re not sure, find somebody like me to help you. (If you’re reading this blog and you want a session for $100CAD, message me on Facebook or through the contact form on this site.)
You get to have the life that you want. The first step to that is believing that you deserve it. The second one is being entitled, not like a spoiled brat, but like somebody that knows what they want and they understand that they can have it. Because you can and you should.
Love to all.
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